Thanks Firstlove, Yes, letting go is what I need to do, that poem you posted is outstanding.. really clarifies the message of the direction I should be taking.. Unfortunately, I really don't want to "let go" of my marriage, but I guess I need to let her go, and she if she does come back?
Me-43,W-41 Married 18 years Together 20 years S12, S13 Wife EA - 3-2009 Reconciled WAW-9-2009 Reconciled again 2-2010 Bomb- 12/30/2010 Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011 BITS