Thanks Firstlove, Yes, letting go is what I need to do, that poem you posted is outstanding.. really clarifies the message of the direction I should be taking.. Unfortunately, I really don't want to "let go" of my marriage, but I guess I need to let her go, and she if she does come back?


Me-43,W-41
Married 18 years
Together 20 years
S12, S13
Wife EA - 3-2009
Reconciled
WAW-9-2009
Reconciled again 2-2010
Bomb- 12/30/2010
Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011
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