Reccos, I have been following your sitch. I just don’t know where to start. My MIL, SIL are bipolar, W maybe. IMO this makes for a more dynamic sitch as their emotions and mindsets are constantly changing. I am not dealing with them on a day to day basis. I can only imagine how your day to day is.
So what if your W was not bipolar? What does DR recommend?
What are your 180s?
What are you doing for you?
IMO you should not try to fix this. You should try and heal you. When you have found some stability the rollercoaster will slow down. It has not stopped for me, but the plunges are not quite as steep.
Is she a WAW? I don’t know. There are others on this board that will ask you what does your gut tell you? Well what does it? If you pursue, appear needy she may very well become one. I’d wager her online friends are not appearing needy.
Breathe, Calm down, Center yourself for the long haul ahead. Read DR, Read DR, Absorb DR, Read and post to other threads. Other posts have ideas and advice you can apply. Posting in other threads draws attention to yours.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
