Newbie- Very Lost- Not Sure where to start

[tdb68]

Thanks for the feedback sandi2, you are right on... I need to get off of the roller coaster, unfortunately, it is difficult right now, since we are still living in the same house, co-parenting, and all she talks about is getting her own place. Do I "help her along" so we can have some separation ? or is that contrary to DB? I do agree with you, that is NOT the reason, I don't believe our bond had strengthened as much as I thought, and now I am believing she was having second thoughts through all of the piecing..