TDB68, IMO she is unsure about something. IMO give her space and time to work through it, act “as if”. Be pleasant, but don’t pursue. When she speaks with you listen, make eye contact. If she expresses how she is feeling, validate.
Yes, we are all struggling with detaching. It isn’t easy. Be calm and in control of yourself and how you interact with her. You already know reacting is counter productive. What actions are productive?
BITS (Brothers and Babes in the S**t) I think. Add it to your signature, and post in other threads. Even if you have no words knowing someone else is listening and bumping your post up for others to see helps them. When you actually can suggest something it helps you.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
