Resilient,

Just because he's lying, is no reason to give up on your marriage. The one has nothing to do with the other.

Call him on his deceit, and deal with it, by drawing (and learning to enforce) appropriate boundaries. But don't give up (unless that's truly what YOU decide you must do) simply because he's lying.

Cheating and lying are as old as the world itself. Marriages can recover from them.

Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)