What is WRONG with your man? Here I am trying to turn around the Fridgid Bitch of the east, while an EX Beauty Queen CAN"T GET ENOUGH SEX. GOD MUST REALLY BE TESTING ME HERE. This must be a test of my will. I have so much to give, you so much want to receive, and yet we both married the wrong people for our situations.
Cemar marries fridgid woman while Beauty Queen starves for intimacy and sex. Boy, did I get the short end of the stick.
Seriously, though. You have to get the guy checked out. Get him in for yearly physicals, especially if he is over 35-40 years old. Myabe you could get the Doctor as part of his blood workup, check the testosterone levels while he is at it, without telling the hubby.
Remember, according to the Bible, the responsibility of your husbands body belongs to YOU not him. And likewise, the responsibility of your body belongs to Him, not you.