No worries, not feeling beat up at all. I am just trying to make sure everyone understands my thought pattern here and I appreciate every bit of feedback and advice I have received.

I can't find the thread you are referring to, any chance for a link?

BTW, I went back and got a quick update on your sitch. Last I saw goes back several months where it sounded like you and your W were dating. How are things going now?

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