It's funny how I can see me saying those exact same things and my W returning the same way.
It seems like all three of us need to do one thing - take some of the focus off the relationship. Just let it happen.
Imagine if you were taking your time, trying to finish a project. All you needed was some time so you could focus but every 5 minutes, someone interrupts and says, "You done yet?" "You done yet??" "How about now?"
That would drive you nuts. ESPECIALLY if you were doing that thing for that person. I would want to either give up or give in.
That could be where our wives are.
I take things like what your W said, Harrier and the way XYZ's W acts - the way my W talks about OUR future plans and take those as answers to our questions about the relationship.
Maybe if we back off even more - they'll come more forward.
That's my goal for this week. No more R talk all week.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
