MSM: MSM: Has he been throughly checked out, particularly his testosterone?
Is he claiming to not be interested in you because of attractiveness? One of my close couple friends have a LD male that says the same thing about his wife, and she is not that unattractive. ALmost sounds like another "Hurdle" being placed in your path to sexual fullfillment by your husband.
Physical Attracteness is the #3 need for the average man. In fact 4, of the top 5 needs of men are "Visual". You need to realize that a very BIG difference between men and women is that women are "Verbal" oriented, while men a "Visual" oriented. So sex for men is very "VISUAL". We all age, and start to lose some of our appeal, but you might want to make sure you look as good as you can. Read the chapter on Physical Attractiveness in His Needs/Her Needs. You don't have to be anything special, just make yourself look and feel good. If you think you need to lose 10 pounds, go for it. Then see what happens. If he still does not respond, at least your lookin' good for the next guy.
