that is a tough one.

some of that is familiarity.
When times were really bad with my W, I was told to not have expectations at all. Act as if you were divorced. That way, you can see certain behaviors clearer. Like, would she do certain things if you were divorced.

That's tough. for sure...

solely - you funny.

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE