CS,

I have been around here long enough and have seen so much and at the risk of being banned I need to watch what I write.

So, what are you doing that is attractive to your W?

Being mysterious works, how can you be mystrious?


Let's think about how the WAW who is having an affair looks at the sitch.
WAS- Well, I have this magical R with someone who finally understands me. The thought of seeing him gives me much anticipation. I still have my H at home waiting for me and I know he'll always be there for me. He's a great guy and a good father but we don;t have that special connection.

This is cake eating, all WAW do it. Proving to her you are the best option is essential. If she can't see that then it's out to you NOT to be an option for her.

People crave what they can;t have. Your W knows she has you.
You need to flip things around where you put the fear in her about losing you.

I'm here to help. I have traveled the road you are currently on.
I have seen what works and what doesn't.
I have never seen a LBS win back his WAW be letting an affair fizzle out.

Are you a country music fan?
there so many songs that fit our sitch.
gr8


Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12
Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life!
“Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."