Divorce or Hope?

[ninelives]

You are right about this sitch. I am the only one that can decide. Her moving on with the OM should be the nail in the coffin but again, I dont see her making the wisest moves in the world right now.

I would like the dust to settle and then decide what to do from there. He hasnt moved in yet but she does have a relationship with him for sure. He does stay over when my son isnt there and may be staying over when he is. I havent asked him since I dont want to stress him out. ( My son that is)

I know I am repeating myself but I am going forward and then seeing where things lie when and if she comes back. My therapist believes that someday she will come back when this relationship fizzles but she would come back for the wrong reasons.

Time to take a 2X4 across the head and realize that my marriage is over and may not be fixed ever.

Its a shame because we did have a good thing going , or at least thats what I thought along with countless others.