I have done the same thing in waiting to reply. Usually let at least an hour go by. Who knows, but this has seemed to get her asking more questions. This weekend the questions switched from just things about our D to me and my life. I know I shouldn't over analyze this, but I do see it as a baby step in the right direction.
I know this is going to take A LOT of time. I am prepared, and the help here is invaluable in getting through it.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
