Right now everytime i talk to her, I get emotionally stirred.
why?
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Nope, I am not going with a lawyer. I am discussing the details with her and not her lawyer. If we could live 11 years together then i thought that we should be able to discuss our details and agree on what is fair for both of us.
huge mistake. you need to get yourself a lawyer and protect yourself financially. if you think that working it out between the two of you is easy .. think again.
marriage is about love. divorce is about money.
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Hope that i'll develop the fortitude and emotional maturity to entice her back into my life.
i wouldn't bet money on that. if what you are doing is to entice your wife back into your life, then you are going about db-ing completely wrong. it is no wonder there is no progress.
the purpose needs to be about you. doing what works for you. and if someone wants to be a part of that, they need to earn their way in because you deserve better than that.
