Moving forward is what you make of it. Just because my moving forward will lead to divorce does not say that yours shall be the same. Nobody knows your story better than you! I know my story better than my wife. So focus on you and detatch. I love my wife but I can't stand the thought of her with the om, so why would any man put up with this stuff? I refuse and I will make myself happy! Heck I still wake up at 3:00am thinking of them doing lord knows what, I just start thinking about something different. It has been helping me deal with this crap.
I think about how great my kids are and is th actions of their mother teaching them the proper way of dealing with life? Heck no! I need to be the rock for them and myself. I will succeed end of story. I put my kids first and it gets your mind off of a bad thought. Some of the old timers might disagree but it seems to help me. I also think I am making better life decisions now.
Make yourself happy we all have it in us.
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
