Thanks DumpedforMIL:

Yea I am waiting for a chance to apologize validate her feelings. Right now everytime i talk to her, I get emotionally stirred. Nope, I am not going with a lawyer. I am discussing the details with her and not her lawyer. If we could live 11 years together then i thought that we should be able to discuss our details and agree on what is fair for both of us.

Yea i know hope is not a plan. But i gotta have hope. Hope that she might change her mind one day. Hope that i'll develop the fortitude and emotional maturity to entice her back into my life.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...