I have not yet tried the DB coaching yet. I have spoken to them on the phone about the counseling ... when I called in I got Michelle directly ... but was paying for and seeking other counseling at the time. Is it worth trying at this point now that everything is final? It would be nice if I could bring myself to speak to her again some day. Right now I know there is too much anger and disrespect for me on her part due to the financial situation ... and too much pain on my part do to the break up.