dude, that is huge. Just being able to hear what she really means is gigantic.

Your approach is right to. Now you can delve a little deeper. How can you make her feel reassured?
What ways can you make her feel secure that you won't leave?

those are tough questions.


I asked a little earlier, but do you initiate any physical contact with her?


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE