dude, that is huge. Just being able to hear what she really means is gigantic.
Your approach is right to. Now you can delve a little deeper. How can you make her feel reassured? What ways can you make her feel secure that you won't leave?
those are tough questions.
I asked a little earlier, but do you initiate any physical contact with her?
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