When I was over in Newcomers, Coach used to say often "listen to what your spouse is REALLY saying to you". Well, I think I had a bit of light-bulb moment this weekend. W has said to me recently several times that she doesn't think I will wait for her - I've tried to reassure her that I will. I think now that what she's really saying is that she's SCARED that I won't wait for her. Man, that really puts a different light on it. Easier not to feel pissed off about the comment when I think of it that way.
M: 39 W: 37 Married: 9 D5; S3 "It's Over" 09/26/10 11 Day Sep 10/10 Piecing Starts 11/4/10 Piecing Fails 4/11 I move out 5/11 Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11 Piecing #2 - 6/22/11 Home 10/11
