Thank you seeking answers. I appreciate your insight into my problem. I have remained dark but keep in contact with my children. My youngest daughter wanted to know if I went out with my female friend and I told her it was none of her concern. She said mom knows you are. My wife left a voice message asking where I was and whether I was with my female friends. It is bothering her which hopefully will allow her to look at the problems and get help. My sister-in-law states she thinks it is good this happened because she thinks this will draw her sister to me. Will see what happens. Bobby O