Hi! I posted back in november and got some great advice. Unfornuantly things have been up and down and are now very down. I little background. Me 34 h 34 married almost 10 years. We have a s3 and d5. Found out in November he was facebooking with a female several states away. Broke down stated he was unhappy in marriage talked about seperation but defriended her on facebook. We stayed together and things improved through the holidays. Shortly after jan 1 he started acting very strange and pulling away. Had antoher r talk around the end of Jan where I confirmed he was still talkng with her, making phone calls and even flew up to see her. He did not admit to this his best friend told me everything. I took a stand and said end it or move out. He stated he wanted to save his family couldn't imaging life without us etc. Well I just found out she had posted pics on her facebook profile this weekend of pics of them together and he had a seperate fb page. He stated he didn't set it up she must have. Now he is back to saying he has been unhappy for 2 years and it's not about her. He is on travel this week and I have no idea where we stand. Obviously I tried to set boundies but that was a waste because he did not follow them and I did not follow through. What do I do at this point.
