Really struggling with this whole "detaching". This is someone who I have been with for 20 years, my best friend that I talk to everyday.. Now, I am not supposed to talk to her at all?? How are any of you getting along with this part? Is this concept this hard for everyone? Any thoughts or comments?
Me-43,W-41 Married 18 years Together 20 years S12, S13 Wife EA - 3-2009 Reconciled WAW-9-2009 Reconciled again 2-2010 Bomb- 12/30/2010 Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011 BITS
