Guys , we are all in similar situations. My w has two times waivered again about her decision. ONce after new years where she actually asked for a week to decide on what to do and then recently after a night of drinking on her part that she has blown up her life and doesnt know what she is doing and has told me that she misses me at times and when I saw her I and she was crying uncontrollably, which she has done more than once. She let me kiss away her tears like i used to when we were married.

But then OM gets into her head, and he is in there deep and she then changes her mind again. I guess what Im saying is that even when they have glimpses of missing us and even admit it, their actions speak much louder than their words.

My W even came back to our marriage in July and wrote me a 7 page letter professing undying love but two weeks later continued her affair. Her words were one thing but as long as there is OM, there is no chance. That MUST fizzle first.

Hang in there.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11