In fact, I used to constantly obsess over it before we separated.
Not a path that I want to walk again, as I'm positive that my obsessing pushed him away.
The one person whom I was worried about being an OW, the girl, he's assured me was not. That there was never anything romantic between them.
At this point, I'm sure if I asked him if there was ever anyone else, I'm sure he'd tell me the truth.
But I don't want to know...
But, I've honestly not seen any 'evidence' of it.
Perhaps I'm being naive.
I did ask him when we began to date again if there was anyone. He answered me, "Well, if there was one, you'd have the right to know that, that'd be something I'd have to tell you. Don't you agree?"
And I answered, "Yes."
And that's the closest he's come to coming straight out and saying there was never anyone else.
Now I know there are people on this BB who will probably look at my situation and say, "Yes, there was someone else involved."
But I don't know...and don't care. Don't want to know as it would only hurt me.
Gee, Kitti...I guess this is a huge can of worms for me.
I'm sorry I can't give you a straight answer. But my gut says, no there wasn't one.
