Try to be solution oriented

[Denver_2010]

3) What are you doing for yourself so that you can be both emotionally and physically healthy as you are dealing with this?

My advice to you right now is to really focus on yourself for the time being. You can NOT control what your BF is doing right now. The only person who you can control is yourself. The sooner that you learn this, the better off that you will be.

BITS
Denver

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You can't control the situation right now Resilient. You are wanting the magic elixir that will solve the issues that you are dealing with right now.

There isn't one.

You have to take care of yourself. That is the only thing that you can control

You are in Last Resort Technique in my opinion. Please read about it in Divorce Remedy book.

BITS
Denver