SC, Thanks for the "pick me up." I really, really appreciate it. If you don't mind me asking, how long did you have to remain dark to get these little rays of positive response? I ask because I have been dark for a couple of months now and nothing much has resulted from it. I thought her sudden interest in me a few weeks ago was the results of going dark. I got on here and praised my efforts and how well they worked. But, it was all a sham. She just wanted stuff from the house and money. Once she got that, she disappeared again. The going dark had nothing to do with her sudden interest in me. It was her own personal gains and needs that bought her back to the table. And once they were fulfilled, she disappeared again and now sends me to voicemail.
It still amazes me. For 14 years, I would get a huge ration of sh*t from her if we didn't talk on the phone every day. Especially if we were traveling on business or separated due to some sort of travel. Now, she sends me to voicemail on every chance she gets...
I would like to say I am having one of those days, but it is more like I am having one of those months. February has just been awful. Numerous days in bed until noon or later. The only thing I have stayed faithful to is my family, my job, my gym time and my BITS. I have let everything else fall by the wayside.
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
I think that you need to go check out the divorce busting FB page again FOBD! Not sure that you're getting it.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
