The other part of the conversation I hinted in the previous post went like this:
W: "Just wanting to know if you have plans this coming Saturday. My parents only get in that night, and two of my friends husbands are coming to help me move. So if you'd like to take our son out that day or leave him...I just don't want you to be depressed by being here with the move and all." M: "I think I can think and decide for myself." Due to the porn addiction, my wife and I have become enmeshed like a mother-and-son relationship where she tries to think for me and spoon feed me. So this was me practicing my 180, even though at this stage is should technically be LRT. W: "Ooooh, standing up for yourself, huh?" My wife waved her fist while she sarcastically said that.
Wow, we ALL DO act and talk like children sometimes, even the self-proclaimed level headed ones.
