But I have already seen that when faced with proof, he can be influenced to believe something else, and this was even before we started having problems in our M.
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Right now, I have started working on reversing his mindset, am planting seeds, by appealing to his "idealistic" side. I do see it is starting to work, to be honest.
I understand where you're coming from - but you are still trying to manipulate an outcome.
Angel - this is his journey - you need to respect him enough to let him take it. Who are you to "plant seeds" to get the outcome you want? Unless he figures this stuff out himself - he's never going to make it out of the tunnel. You cannot do it for him. Trying to, will only lenghthen his process and rob you of your own.
Please try to detach - you could try by "planting seeds" about detachment in your own mind - because after all, this journey is all about learning how to change yourself and your reactions. the ones that got you here in the first place ... ya know??
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Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
