I think we are all in the same kind of boat. I wish I had more advice, but I think our wives went to the same school of thought. "I don't miss you" that is a hard one to take, when we miss them at every turn. One thing that sticks out to me. Never place blame on WAW for leaving. After my W and I told our kids D5 S4 about mommy and daddy not living together anymore, I let my emotions drive me for a moment. I said "how can you do that to our family?" (after the kids were asleep) big mistake. Needless to say, the W left angry, but not before saying "don't think I can wait 3 months before filing" OUCH. I can only hope that these things were said at a very emotional time for both of us and she will cool her jets. But I just don't know. Just remember, do not let your emotions rule you like I have. It will get you no good results.
