Wow, that was a lot of reading!!! I'll admit, I skimmed through parts.
I sick as it might sound, I enjoyed reading your story, hang in there man. I would be thankful that your W at least wants to talk about things. Tells you how she feels. I would love to just hear my W vent and have me just sit there and take it!
So, keep it up, good things CAN happen!
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
