Shaves,
Well, you know my story and it pretty much matches yours. She took her ring off and went out of the country where she made a "friend" while she was there. There began the EA. I still don't know if it has gone to a PA. But if it did, I can't do anything about it. I have now been living alone for five months. The first couple of days will seem fine, but it will get tougher down the road. Please stay in touch with me. I can tell you some things you can expect.

Now, the hard part begins. Please stay in touch with the BITS as they can help you with this.

BITS never walk alone!!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...