Try to be solution oriented

[JustStunned]

Resilient, take a deep breathe we are not ignoring you. We are also wrapped up in our own drama’s. For me the weekends are the worse. It is when I have most interactions with W and my local support group. So I am not on this board much. I am db’ing my fanny off.

You’re trying to find a quick fix to get rid of the pain this is causing you. We have all been there. I did not find a quick fix. If I did I would not be here feeling your pain. This is a process we are going through. It is work. It will be painful. I promise you the better and longer you do it the less painful and easier it becomes. Stop trying to fix it. Start trying to heal yourself. Find things outside the R to do and feel good about.

Your email is only your last attempt if you choose to make it so. It does seem to be pursuit. Pursuing will only make him run away harder.