Not Sure Which Way to Go

[JustStunned]

DnOinTN, Perhaps I read into your card playing analogy. I should not because I use battle analogies to help me assimilate what I am learning. I feel I need to say this. I apologize if I misread your last post.

One of the things I learned early on here from this board is we DB to improve us. A side benefit of this is our S may notice and be more inclined to join us in a new R. I read this in DR also but it took this board to have it sink in.

If we use these techniques to manipulate our S they will eventually backfire. The changes we make must be real, and they must be for us or we will not sustain them. Do these things for you and your children, to improve you.