Not giving up is the ONLY solution -that and true love
That is what I say to myself every day -because I believe it.
We all have our different challenges -mine is that my wife has zero interest in building a marriage anew -she simply has quit -given up totally -for her there is no such thing as hope or a future -her only vision is that of complete failure thru divorce -she is so defeated spiritually that she cannot even discuss our R for even one minute and refuses to do so -will not talk and will not go for counseling at all -tough situation to improve on let me tell you
Therefore the ONLY avenue here is faith and hope -that is all
Firstlove - I admire your dedication in a tough situation. I know it seems bleak, but you can improve yourself and show her what kind of man and husband you can be. Faith and hope can go a long way. Don't ever give up.
When I was asked how hard I was willing to fight, I thought about my son. If the W and I were ever to separate, and my son grows older and asks me why we split. I want to be able to tell him, "Son. I never gave up. I fought the fight of my life to save our family." I want to mean that. There is no giving up.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
