I agree with you 100%. And in places I don't agree with you 100%, I agree 110%!
I made some pretty unnecessary conversational and interactive blunders, and when you highlighted them, I couldn't believe how I could've missed them or have been so naive.
Tonight I'll be letting my wife know that I will be drafting a document stating our care schedule for our son, the reason she's moving out and not disclosing her location (if she still refuses to let me know), etc. I hope that she signs it. I will be revising that document as major changes during our separation occur. SO EVERYBODY, PLEASE PRAY ABOUT THAT!
Mike, your comment about my wife being sexually hurt by my addiction is right on. I can't remember which forum I wrote about this, but my wife was traumatized over and over again due to my addiction and lies (they go hand in hand). It is the nature and consequence of pretty much all spouses of addicts to be filled with so much hate and resentment. Sometimes I wonder if all my DBing can ever counteract this kind of damage. Until my wife is able to figure out her anger and resentment, I think the chance of reaching her may be difficult. Not impossible, but difficult. And who knows, by the time she figures it out, she may already have another man in her life to support her. Blasted coat tail riders!
