To me it doesn't really matter if that is the case or not. Whether she text when OM is there or not is none of my concern and doesn't really change a thing.
I am more interested in reading into what she is saying, what she might be thinking. I find it interesting that she was "worried" and that she is wondering what "we" are doing. I might be reading too much into it, but it is interesting nonetheless. Have to find small victories to celebrate, right?
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