Hate to say it country but I think you hit the nail right on the head. She is probably not texting when she is involved with the OM. Then when she is by herself I think that guilt starts up and she wants to play family again.
My wife is the exact same way. And I cant for the life of me understand how a mother ( with maternal instincts) can be satisfied raising kids part time. They are just being selfish at this point and only care about themselves. My wife's C told her that she displays very selfish tendencies and has not really grown up and acts like a teenager at times.
BE strong Country. Keep going dark cause thats all you have and your self respect. You can hold your head up high and go wherever you want. Can she make the same claim?
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