Recovering after a same sex affair

[Firstlove]

Not giving up is the ONLY solution -that and true love

That is what I say to myself every day -because I believe it.

We all have our different challenges -mine is that my wife has zero interest in building a marriage anew -she simply has quit -given up totally -for her there is no such thing as hope or a future -her only vision is that of complete failure thru divorce -she is so defeated spiritually that she cannot even discuss our R for even one minute and refuses to do so -will not talk and will not go for counseling at all -tough situation to improve on let me tell you

Therefore the ONLY avenue here is faith and hope -that is all