No kidding, ninelives. I think my family thinks I am crazy for fighting for my marriage. The see a situation where my wife had a 10 month affair with another woman. She must be gay. What am I doing?

I then found my unconditional love for my wife and the vows that I read to her on our wedding day. I see a very confused person that needs patience to sort herself out, and a family that has so much potential if it manages to stay intact. It is all so complex, but I never thought I would be here.

Hope you are having good day, grr. Take care.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated