Sorry I haven’t responded before now, been dealing with drama in my own sitch.

Do not help her move out. Let her make her own way feeling the bumps in the road while she does. Do what it takes to be strong and independent. Do not be dependant.

Who were you when you met? That was a person she found attractive. What can you do to improve that person?

Detach, GAL, show her you can be strong and interesting. She will not find needy, dependant attractive.


BITS
Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill