Rue Once again I can relate to you. The dink lives about 7 hours away, they met through work. They don't see each other real often but the times when I can piece together that she is with him are beyond hard for me. I go in and out of spurts were I am on sleeping meds. I do look at there distance as a positive and maybe you should too. She will never move away from our D2 and I have to believe he will not leave his home. If I am correct, the A will fizzle out. In the mean time we must GAL our butts off. At one point in time our S found us more appealing than any other person on god's earth....make it happen again