Dont want to high jack thread here but I think most of us are shocked by how much we want to keep our marriage and by how much we are willing to forget to do so.
I know that when I was younger I thought that if she ever even kissed another man I would walk with no problem. But the stakes are too high. Now i am considering forgiving her for sleeping with another man for over a year. That is crazy to me but it just goes to show you that this BITS club values their marriage and believes in the vows that were made.
Better or Worse and could it be any worse for us.
Dont beat yourself up GRRR, its commendable that you arent just ready to do what over 50% do and just give up. Giving up is easy.
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BITS M-46 W-42 M-16y T-19 y s10 s15 BombDec.19/09 Sep-F16/10 Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10 Recon July 5/10 PA foundOut- Oct 30/10 Mental HospNov/10 moved out Nov/10 Leg Sep Mar 15/11
