Tera - do you feel like you detached (per DB) at all? That's the hard thing about having the little kids. We're thrown together a lot and I'm forced to be around a lot. I try to get away sometimes when he has them, but he's not even set up in his apt for the older to do overnights. I can sometimes just hand the phone over for my 2 year old to talk, but for a real update/discussion, I end up being involved.
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem