i agree with you denver but fact is, here in az, we only have 1 car so we have to share i guess we are seeing each other too much we are together much of the day i still shop for him, make lunch for him sometimes we are getting along so well these days because we are both paying attention but he sees me as a friend, would be my guess and really, if you knew me before this happened you would be shocked that i would want to stay with someone who does not want me