I don't know grr... are you his 'driver' or his 'wife'?
I think that you are being too available for someone who says that he doesn't want to be M'd to you...
You have plenty of opportunity to look 'hot' for him and have pleasant conversations when he is around being a dad to his S.
I wouldn't make his life so easy. He wants D... let him see what its going to be like if he does it!
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce