fobd - one thing i do know, and i'm sorry if this sounds so harsh, that drinking yourself into oblivion, drinking to numb the pain, is going to hurt you way more in the end we are your friends we care about you you are valuable to us so stop it i don't know that your do it often, but even a few times a week is too much
your wife left once and came back so did my husband and i am working toward making that happen again
so should you
it's not over til it's over and even then who knows
i will tell you that if i left my h, the only chance i would come back would be to come back to a strong functioning male
that's what we women want
go to the fb page and read that article on 12 ways to talk to your man many of us have it was helpful
and as a strong, caring male, i would love your opinion on it