What a WONDERFUL update!!!!!!!!! I'm so happy for you and S. I'm dancing a little jig and virtual high-fiving you in my sunroom. It almost sounds as though H has been living with you part-time for the past week. You must be very busy if you have been doing all of these things with H AND working 3 jobs. Hopefully you'll get a chance to rest while H is out of town this week.
Thank you very much for sharing your thought processes throughout this. It really helps the rest of us to problem solve our situations and to see hope where we may be seeing hopelessness. Does your H have any idea just how incredible you are??????????