Wow FOBD, you are in a catch 22 situation but there must be a way to navigate through it.
Is there someway to reach her about a matter concerning money , lawyers etc... that is going on in your sitch? Maybe to get the ball rolling.
Or have you reached a point in this where it is time to roll the dice and contiue to be dark and hope for the best.
If she doesnt respond, maybe that is telling you for the moment that she is truly done. But you know how these women are. Next month or week, they will change again. That seems to be the only constent I think is that they are effed up and are really confused about what they are doing.
All the best.
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