Friday night was good. We went out with friends for a few hours and a few times I noticed that he was standing VERY close to me.
Then yesterday, I didn't know what he wanted on his hamburger (gasp) and he went crazy. "How the hell can you not know after 8 years...blah blah blah...that why we are not going to married anymore...blah blah."
Later we went to dinner and he was nice and we were laughing together UNTIL he asked if it was really warm in the restaurant. I said yes it was uncomfortable and he has to mumble under his breath that I am NEVER comfortable. Either I am too hot or too cold. He stopped and got us some ice cream afterward.
He seems just peachy living as roommates(with no benefits)I am not sure of the status with OW. She lives 4 states over.
How do people handle this "push/pull" "back off/attract" dance. I have done MUCH better taking a few seconds before I say anything. If he is cold I am (acting) as cheerful as can be. That usually warms him up.
Why bring up the "we are not going to married anymore"?
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
