Divorce or Hope?

[ninelives]

The dance contiues. She texted me this morning about the lawyer stuff and the sepearation and that she will try and get it done ASAP as per my request.

She told me she was caught off guard that I talked to her in the lobby of the arena and thanked me for doing so ; even though it was just lawyer stuff.

I know she wants me to talk to her and to be pleasant to her but that part is just about done.

She sent me another text talking about young son and his girlfriend. Making idle chit chat.

I did not respond to either text and I will not unless it is directly involved with the kids.

All you member that are reading my sitch. Do you think there is still hope even though she is pretty sure she is in love with the OM right now. She is mentally unstable for sure and may be bipolar and depressed.

She cheated in November 09 with this guy, came back to me in July /10 , ended her affair with him for two weeks than continued again until I caught her Oct /10.

They will be living together soon. How much is too much?

I fluctuate on that every other day. Sometimes I think that it is way beyond saving and other times I think there is still hope.

Especially when since January, she has asked me twice if it is too late to come back at some point down the road as I think she knows that her future with him is going to be a rocky one.

I know that Denver and True Gritter have some thoughts , I would love to hear them.

Having a down day today unfortunately.

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